Blushing – Just stop caring

17 Jun

Tallspeaking, Blushing, getting red, getting nervous, public speaking,

Stop Caring about Blushing

 

 

Stop caring. Not only is your blushing much less noticeable than you probably think, it’s also helpful to remember that most people either find blushing to be cute or endearing. There are benefits to being a blusher. They include:

  • People who witness someone blush find the blusher to be more sympathetic, softening their social judgments of the person. In this way, blushing may help build better social bonds.
  • Researchers believe that people who blush are better at relationships, reporting higher levels of monogamy and trustworthiness.

Don’t feel responsible for blushing. Whatever you do, don’t feel responsible for blushing. It is involuntary. Train your mind to understand that your conscious thoughts have nothing to do with this autonomic bodily response. You are not to blame, and you are not guilty of anything. If you let go of feeling responsible for blushing, there’s a good chance you’ll find yourself blushing less often.

3 Responses to “Blushing – Just stop caring”

  1. Blushing September 3, 2013 at 12:18 #

    Very nice info. i agree with most of what you are saying. but i think that just not caring about blushing is a lot easier said than done. i think with age it becomes easier. i have actually had this condition myself

    • Keith Scott September 3, 2013 at 14:49 #

      I truly appreciate your comments / especially since you have to work with this condition.

  2. cocacolamas September 3, 2013 at 12:22 #

    Blushing is a serious problem, I agree with a lot of what you are saying. but i dont agree that people can just “stop caring about blushing”.

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